ANGLE is _really_ annoying to build. (Requires special toolchain and a
recent MSVC version.) This results in various issues with people
having trouble to build mpv against ANGLE (apparently linking it
against a prebuilt binary doesn't count, or using binaries from
potentially untrusted sources is not wanted).
Dynamically loading ANGLE is going to be a huge convenience. This commit
implements this, with special focus on keeping it source compatible to
a normal build with ANGLE linked at build-time.