This reverts commit c618ed5ff4.
The list iterator is broken. As found by Fred, running QUIC single-
threaded shows that only the first connection is accepted because the
accepter relies on the element being initialized once detached (which
is expected and matches what MT_LIST_DELETE_SAFE() used to do before).
However while doing this in the quic_sock code seems to work, doing it
inside the macro show total breakage and the unit test doesn't work
anymore (random crashes). Thus it looks like the fix is not trivial,
let's roll this back for the time it will take to fix the loop.
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