Since commit 7ac0e35f2 in 1.9-dev1 ("MAJOR: fd: compute the new fd polling
state out of the fd lock") we've started to update the FD POLLED bit a
bit more aggressively. Lately with the removal of the FD cache, this bit
is always equal to the ACTIVE bit. There's no point continuing to watch
it and update it anymore, all it does is create confusion and complicate
the code. One interesting side effect is that it now becomes visible that
all fd_*_{send,recv}() operations systematically call updt_fd_polling(),
except fd_cant_recv()/fd_cant_send() which never saw it change.
