diff --git a/src/msg/async/AsyncConnection.cc b/src/msg/async/AsyncConnection.cc
index d6e24370552..5418abaa0ea 100644
--- a/src/msg/async/AsyncConnection.cc
+++ b/src/msg/async/AsyncConnection.cc
@@ -1679,7 +1679,6 @@ ssize_t AsyncConnection::handle_connect_msg(ceph_msg_connect &connect, bufferlis
       existing->delay_state->flush();
       assert(!delay_state);
     }
-    existing->requeue_sent();
     existing->reset_recv_state();
 
     auto temp_cs = std::move(cs);
@@ -1706,8 +1705,11 @@ ssize_t AsyncConnection::handle_connect_msg(ceph_msg_connect &connect, bufferlis
       // we need to delete time event in original thread
       {
         std::lock_guard<std::mutex> l(existing->lock);
+        existing->write_lock.lock();
+        existing->requeue_sent();
         existing->outcoming_bl.clear();
         existing->open_write = false;
+        existing->write_lock.unlock();
         if (existing->state == STATE_NONE) {
           existing->shutdown_socket();
           existing->cs = std::move(cs);
@@ -2431,6 +2433,7 @@ void AsyncConnection::handle_write()
     }
 
     auto start = ceph::mono_clock::now();
+    bool more;
     do {
       bufferlist data;
       Message *m = _get_next_outgoing(&data);
@@ -2442,13 +2445,14 @@ void AsyncConnection::handle_write()
         sent.push_back(m);
         m->get();
       }
+      more = _has_next_outgoing();
       write_lock.unlock();
 
       // send_message or requeue messages may not encode message
       if (!data.length())
         prepare_send_message(get_features(), m, data);
 
-      r = write_message(m, data, _has_next_outgoing());
+      r = write_message(m, data, more);
       if (r < 0) {
         ldout(async_msgr->cct, 1) << __func__ << " send msg failed" << dendl;
         goto fail;